I woke up this morning wondering how to celebrate your Birthday this Month. The Month of March each year is a period you and I usually spends moments together for Prayers and Thanksgiving, crack jokes with each other, laugh generally over childhood memories.
Oh, this year’s 2023 birthday is different, I held my phone to call you as usual, but then it dawned on me that you were no longer here, my heart is broken! The death of a loving sister is one of the most demoralizing experiences in life! There’s something about losing a sister that’s inexpressible and permanent. It’s a wound that’ll never heal.
My sister is the completion of my childhood, I shared the most memorable years of my life with her. Though she is no more here, we’ll still be together for life as there won’t be a more remarkable moment than the time we spent together. My brain captured every moment we were growing up, memories may fade with time, but you remain a part of me.
Dear Sister Dolapo, why did you choose to leave me here at this time? Didn’t you know you made life fun? I grew up with you, and my greatest regret is losing you.
But who are we to question God? I know you’ll be treated right in Heaven. My life has never been the same since you left. I’ll probably never know why you left us this soon. But I know you’re enjoying eternal bliss.
You were a virtuous woman, you are deeper than the ocean, and you are simply the best. Those near and far loved you. Thank you for always bringing out the best in everyone you met.
The last few months have been difficult. Your death left me almost lifeless, Days gone by, but the pain still cleaves to me despite being gone for four months, it’s been four months of uncontrollable tears, the hopeless expectation that you will soon get up from that bed, oh, my love for you is deeper than I thought. Thank you for being an awesome sister.
Wrap your new wings around us and let your angelic self radiate through our pain. I’m happy you’re with the Lord. Rest on sister. You’re something special.
You were the friend I needed. My biggest cheerleader. You knew my biggest fear, even the ones I couldn’t share with anyone. Yet you helped me through it all. Stay well, my beloved sister.
You were a solid Christian, a firm believer in angels. You’ve become one of them now. Fly across heaven with them. You’re loved and missed forever. I wish you happiness and joy in your afterlife.
You were my support woman. My champion and goal-getter. With you, I never gave up on life. Thank you for being with me every step of the way. You continue to live on, You left while there are still a lot of milestones to crush. You’re an inspiration and endearment to my soul.
I’m filled with sorrow, yet I’m grateful for so much. You’ve been the key that unlocked the best part of me. Sleep on dear sister. You may be gone but you remain a memorable presence. I cherish all your prayers and support. Farewell to God’s favorite angel.
You had such a big heart, and you were ready to help anyone in need, you gave free primary education to numerous kids, and your love and positive vibes still surround us, I love you, my sister. You’ve played different positive roles in our lives, and while you’re not here anymore, your values will continue to work for us. Sleep, tight sister.
Our aged mother needs comfort, the children are asking where is mum, the Ehinola family is deeply hurt, and nothing makes sense anymore, but you reassured me that to rest in the Lord is Never to die!
A woman of Prayer even till the end, you weren’t only my sister but my mother. I wish there was something I could exchange to have you back.
Goodbye my gem, Till We Meet To Part No More!
– Adegoroye Ehinola