Now that You Found Love!
Treat it with Gentleness, Kindness, and Nurturing Care.
Song of Solomon 2:1-4 KJV
[1] I am the rose of Sharon, And the lily of the valleys.
[2] As the lily among thorns, So is my love among the daughters.
[3] As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, So is my beloved among the sons.
I sat down under his shadow with great delight, And his fruit was sweet to my taste.
[4] He brought me to the banqueting house, And his banner over me was love.
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When you find love, treat it with gentleness, kindness, and nurturing care.
Here are some ways to cherish and honor love:
Communication: Listen actively and express your feelings openly. Share your thoughts, dreams, and fears. Be a supportive listener for your partner.
Respect: Value your partner’s opinions, boundaries, and individuality. Treat them with dignity and consideration.
Empathy: Put yourself in their shoes. Understand their emotions and experiences. Show compassion and be there for them during challenging times.
Appreciation: Celebrate the little things. Express gratitude for their presence, efforts, and love. Acknowledge their uniqueness.
Quality Time: Invest time together. Create memories, laugh, and enjoy shared experiences. Prioritize your relationship amidst life’s busyness.
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Affection: Hold hands, hug, kiss, and cuddle. Physical touch reinforces emotional bonds.
Trust: Build trust through honesty, reliability, and loyalty. Trust is the foundation of lasting love.
Forgiveness: Accept imperfections. Apologize when needed and forgive genuinely. Let go of grudges.
Support: Be each other’s cheerleader. Encourage growth, dreams, and aspirations.
Laughter: Find joy together. Laugh, play, and create a positive atmosphere.
Remember, love is a journey, not a destination. It requires effort, patience, and commitment. Cherish it, and it will flourish.
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How do I know if it’s Love or Infatuation?
Love and infatuation can sometimes feel similar, but they have distinct characteristics.
Here are some differences to help you differentiate between the two:
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Duration:
Infatuation: Typically intense and short-lived. It often arises suddenly and fades quickly.
Love: Endures over time, growing deeper and more stable.
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Intensity:
Infatuation: Intense passion and obsession. It feels like a whirlwind.
Love: Steady and consistent. It encompasses both passion and companionship.
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Idealization:
Infatuation: Idealizes the other person, ignoring flaws.
Love: Accepts imperfections and appreciates the whole person.
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Attachment:
Infatuation: Often lacks a strong emotional bond. It’s more about desire.
Love: Creates a deep emotional connection. You care about their well-being.
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Selflessness:
Infatuation: Self-centered; focused on personal feelings.
Love: Selfless; prioritizes the other person’s happiness.
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Reality Check:
Infatuation: Avoids seeing the other person’s faults.
Love: Acknowledges both strengths and weaknesses.
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Long-Term Goals:
Infatuation: Primarily focused on the present moment.
Love: Considers a shared future together.
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Jealousy:
Infatuation: Often possessive and jealous.
Love: Trusts and respects the other person’s autonomy.
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Depth of Connection:
Infatuation: Surface-level attraction.
Love: Deep emotional intimacy.
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Actions:
Infatuation: Driven by intense emotions.
Love: Demonstrated through consistent actions and commitment.
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Remember that feelings can evolve over time.
If you’re unsure, give it time and observe how your emotions develop.
Both love and infatuation have their place,
but understanding the difference helps you navigate relationships more consciously.
Keep Loving!
Also Read: How to Find a Godly Mate! – Diademng (thediademng.org)
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