Beyond Limitations: The Aaron Fikayomi Story

Beyond Limitations: The Aaron Fikayomi Story

Aaron Fikayomi epitomizes a life lived above limitations—

one who, beyond just believing, exemplifies the conviction that our health or challenges shouldn’t be excuses for redundancy.

I’m a firm believer that we can heal the world with one book at a time, and if many people share their stories, we will have fewer experiences as a great teacher and more lessons from others, which I consider to be a better teacher.

By David Oletu (DCM)

Beyond Limitations: The Aaron Fikayomi Story

Meet Aaron Fikayomi, a resilient and inspiring Lady who has defied the odds to achieve greatness.

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Despite living with Heterotopic Ossification, a debilitating health condition, Aaron has become a renowned author, content creator, book project consultant, and digital book publisher.

Through her brand, ‘Fikky Write Consult,’ she has also empowered numerous individuals to share their stories and achieve their writing and publishing goals.

Aaron Fikayomi epitomizes a life lived above limitations—

one who, beyond just believing, exemplifies the conviction that our health or challenges shouldn’t be excuses for redundancy.

Join us in this inspiring conversation,

as Fikayomi opens up about her life journey, sharing insights into her struggles, wins, and the faith that has sustained her.

Beyond Limitations: The Aaron Fikayomi Story

DCM: Can we meet you?

Fikayomi: I’m Aaron Fikayomi, based in Egbe, Kogi State, Nigeria.

I’m a writer, content creator, book project consultant, and digital book publisher.

I always leave this part out, but I’m often reminded to say, that Fikayomi is an award-winning author.

Through my brand, ‘Fikky Write Consult,’ I have helped individuals achieve their writing and publishing goals effortlessly.

With expertise in various topics—including Christian faith, self-esteem, overcoming trauma, child abuse, and living beyond limitations,

I have been invited as a guest to facilitate online lectures and events, sharing valuable insights and inspiration.

I am passionate about empowering others to live above limitations.

Additionally, I conduct regular virtual classes delving into the intricacies of writing, authoring a book, and becoming a self-publisher.

DCM: Can you tell us more about your health challenge?

Fikayomi: I live with a condition known as Heterotopic Ossification.

It started as a gradual, excruciating tumour on one of my thighs, but it eventually progressed to every joint in my body.

Heterotopic Ossification affects the muscle and soft tissue, making it form into bone-like sheets.

This affects my mobility and function in many ways.

It has also progressed to my abdominal walls, making my peritoneum cavity calcified.

As a result, I walk with a limp and have difficulty eating as I would want to.

DCM: Despite your health condition, you are making waves in business. What are your major drives or motivations?

Fikayomi: I’ll say my major drive is money, because who doesn’t like money?

I want to be rich like Otedola, change my environment, and take good care of my mom. (laughs)

That’s on a lighter note.

When I was to publish my maiden book, “Invisible Seeds,” I was navigating this path blindly, unsure of what to do or how to do it.

Also, I had a similar experience with my second book, “Dear Mummy,” and I was frustrated.

Perhaps ‘frustrated’ is an understatement.

But I eventually realized the loopholes I would have avoided, and publishing my third book, ‘Waiting in Pain,’ was like a walk in the park.

I had a seamless process, and I was like, “This is business sitting on the table for you, girl!”

So, I paid for courses and took the step to help other new authors become proud of their brainchild.

Now, I not only publish but also ghostwrite for people.

I’m a firm believer that we can heal the world with one book at a time,

and if many people share their stories, we will have fewer experiences as a great teacher and more lessons from others, which I consider to be a better teacher.

This has been my motivation for choosing the ghostwriting and publishing path.

I always believe that our health or challenges shouldn’t be an excuse to be redundant.

Most times, I don’t even remember I have a health challenge.

Beyond Limitations: The Aaron Fikayomi Story

DCM: What were some of the biggest challenges you faced when starting your business, and how did you overcome them?

Fikayomi: One of my biggest challenges was marketing myself.

As an introverted person, I would have preferred to stay hidden in my little corner in this village.

However, I realized I could achieve great things from a small place before progressing to a bigger one.

I had to learn to be confident and outspoken about my skills and business.

Sometimes, I often feel I’m not marketing my business enough,

but the referrals and recommendations I receive have encouraged me to be bolder and more outspoken.

Imposter syndrome was a major obstacle, but taking various marketing courses and learning how to brand myself has helped me break free.

DCM: Can you share some notable achievements and milestones in your business?

Fikayomi: Sometime last year, I received a call from a Pastor at The Transforming Church (TTC), Abuja, and I was like, “Wow!”

We published Pastor Nta’s books, “Single Guide” and “A World of Opposites.”

I later learned that my spiritual leaders referred him to me.

Yes! I was pretty excited because I had handled the publishing process of my spiritual leaders, The Adewole-Babatunde’s, books as well.

Also, a time when I had to ghost-write, design, and publish a devotional journal for a foreign client – it was a beautiful experience.

I can say all the people I’ve worked with gave me a sense of notable achievements.

Each one was a stepping stone to improve and become better at what I do.

DCM: Speaking of your books, how does your health condition relate to your book’s content, and did it influence your writing process?

Fikayomi: Something will always influence something, lol.

But in my case, I was never interested in writing a book about myself.

I simply wanted to show people that they can heal, excel, and live above every limitation.

My books have inspired many, and I occasionally receive feedback; it’s fulfilling.

When I eventually wrote a novel, “CRUSHED,” based on my true life story, I felt awkward discussing or marketing it.

However, I’m now learning to be outspoken about it, as it’s become a significant influence on my writing.

Beyond Limitations: The Aaron Fikayomi Story

DCM: What are the things you advocate for in your writings?

Fikayomi: I craft compelling posts on various topics, including motivational, memoirs, and faith-based content.

Additionally, I write to educate individuals and organizations on how to effectively share their written content.

My primary drive for writing is to inspire others, reminding them that they can keep living despite their circumstances.

It’s okay to feel overwhelmed, but I encourage people to let God be their anchor and fully surrender to His will in their lives.

I advocate for everyone, regardless of their challenges, to keep living one day at a time and recognize that there’s more to their existence.

DCM: What message would you love to convey to young people who may lack the self-esteem to do great exploits like you do, and are on the verge of giving up hope, due to their health condition?

Fikayomi: I’ll actually encourage them to give up.

When I say give up, I mean, just give up on what people will say, how people will view you, or what if I don’t do it right—

simply let go of their words and pursue your dreams, dear one.

Any situation or challenge we experience is another turn on the way. You either choose to keep moving or you remain there and waste away.

One of my leaders will say, “If you don’t find your purpose in that condition and fulfil it, God will find someone else to do it,”

but when you get to heaven and see what you could have achieved despite the shortcomings, you will be disappointed.

Sadly, you can’t undo it.

So, like Gideon, go in this your strength. Do the little you can with the little you have, where you are.

Don’t underestimate yourself. Don’t settle for what life has thrown at you.

It might be difficult to pick up the pieces of your life because, while picking it up and trying to fix yourself,

you might end up hurting yourself or re-creating a mess.

I heard these words from Mama Ibukun Awosika, and I had to rephrase it for myself:

“I won’t underestimate myself. Having done all, I stand—even if it means going in this my might, I stand, putting on the whole armour of God.”

So, give up on yourself and let God do His perfect work for you.

There’s so much more in you than those scars.

You know, you might be worried about things not going well for you, or bothered about those circumstances, and you keep asking God, “Why?”

The “why” might be for doubters to see your scars and believe you truly went through this and you are still standing.

So, don’t dim that light. Let it shine brightly.

Beyond Limitations: The Aaron Fikayomi Story

DCM: Could you share with us your unforgettable testimony of God’s faithfulness and grace in your life?

Fikayomi: My life as a whole is a testimony.

When the disease started, I was 11 years old. The doctor’s prognosis was that I wouldn’t live beyond that year.

There were tumours all over my body, and I lived with excruciating pain.

At one point, I had to drop out of school due to accessibility and mobility challenges.

However, here I am today, 19 years later, still basking in God’s grace and just getting started.

Psalm 139:14 KJV

[14] I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: Marvellous are thy works; And that my soul knoweth right well.
https://bible.com/bible/1/psa.139.14.KJV

I’ve had moments when I thought it was over.

I’ve attempted to end my life several times, but those attempts were abortive.

I went through situations that seemed unbearable, only to face even greater challenges later.

This taught me that every experience and challenge prepares us to be stronger for the next phase.

DCM: Any final words for our audience?

Fikayomi: Dear one, you are a living proof of what God’s mercy can do.

You might feel life is too bitter and complicated, and others seem to have it easy.

But remember, we’re each on unique paths, with different journeys and assignments.

Instead of comparing yourself to others, walk at your own pace and ask God for directions on how to live your best life.

You have valid reasons to give up but don’t.

Instead, give up on excuses and distractions that make you feel worthless.