Attitude is Everything
Our attitude determines so much about how we live our lives and how far we’ll go.
“Remember, the real wealth is measured not by what you have, not by where you are, but by the spirit that lives within you.”
Reviewer: David Oletu (DCM)
Book Title: Attitude is Everything Rev’ Ed: 10 Life-Changing Steps to Turning Attitude into Action
Book Author: Keith Harrell
Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers; Revised edition (May 3, 2005)
Page: 272 pages
ISBN-10: 0060779721
ISBN-13: 978-0060779726
One of the fundamental things every person striving for self-improvement should focus on is their attitude.
Our attitude determines so much about how we live our lives and how far we’ll go.
Jim Rohn aptly emphasizes this:
“If you want to move up the ladder, don’t just work harder—though you should do that—
but work on yourself so that you as a person become better and of more value to your workplace.
As you get better, those who can promote you will see that you have outgrown your current position and need to move higher!”
Jim Rohn isn’t far from the truth.
Many individuals mistakenly believe it’s solely their skills that define their worth or propel them forward.
In reality, billions of people possess the skills we have.
So, what truly sets us apart?
Attitude is indeed everything! It’s high time we recognized the significant role our attitude plays in our lives—either promoting or debasing us.
Keith Harrell’s insightful book, ‘Attitude is Everything,’ couldn’t be more timely in helping us recognise this.
Through this book’s 10 chapters, Harrell offers 10 life-changing steps and strategies for developing the positive attitude essential for success.
Proverbs 4:23 KJV
[23] Keep thy heart with all diligence; For out of it are the issues of life.
https://bible.com/bible/1/pro.4.23.KJV
Attitude is Everything
In Chapter One, ‘Attitude is Everything,’ Keith Harrell lays the foundation for transformation by exploring the essence of attitude.
Here, we discover what attitude is, the power it holds, and how our attitude reflects us.
We learn to recognize that we can control our destiny by mastering four essential strategies for staying positive, even in the most challenging times.
According to Harrell, our attitude is a powerful tool for positive action, inherently intertwined with every aspect of our lives.
Remarkably, this valuable asset is already ours; it simply needs development, not purchase.
As Harrell emphasizes, our attitude is our priceless possession, and the good news is, we don’t have to buy it, we only have to develop it.
In Chapter 2, ‘Attitude is a Choice,’ Keith Harrell delves into the power of choices,
highlighting how our decisions determine our happiness and significantly affect our success.
Harrell offers valuable insights and practical keys to controlling how we respond to life’s challenges.
He shows us how to monitor and manage our attitude, enabling us to navigate life’s ups and downs more effectively.
According to Harrell, transforming our attitude into action requires accepting responsibility for our internal dialogue.
Therefore, we must monitor what goes on inside our minds, recognizing that our thoughts shape our attitudes and, ultimately, our reality.
In Chapter 3, ‘Bag Your Bad Attitude,’
Keith Harrell guides us in developing self-awareness to recognize the attitudes that either hinder or empower us.
Through this chapter, we’ll gain insight into the underlying causes of negative attitudes and learn how to transform setbacks into opportunities for growth.
A key tool in this process is the attitude assessment, enabling us to identify areas for improvement and shift our perspective.
By converting turning points into learning points, we can release limiting attitudes and embrace a more positive, productive mindset.
In Chapter 4, ‘Change Your Bad Attitude for Good,’
Keith Harrell points out that an attitude of anger can be transformed into an attitude of gratitude and forgiveness when we shift our perspective.
Hence, in this chapter, we will discover the power of self-forgiveness, which subsequently allows us to forgive others.
Furthermore, we will learn how to recognize and rid ourselves of debilitating attitudes by identifying the three ‘Ps’ that cause a bad attitude.
In Chapter 5, ‘Turn Attitude Into Action,’
Keith Harrell emphasizes the importance of transitioning from self-reflection to purposeful action.
According to Harrell, once you’ve identified the attitudes holding you back, it’s time to focus on your future and determine where you want to go.
He stresses that living with purpose, guided by a clear personal vision, is crucial to achieving success.
This chapter, therefore explores the attitudes that facilitate effective goal-setting and those that hinder the process.
Through Harrell’s expert guidance, we’ll discover how to create a comprehensive life plan, integrate personal and professional objectives,
and equip ourselves with a strategic roadmap for success.
In Chapter 6, ‘Warning: Attitude Hazards Ahead,’
Keith Harrell emphasizes the importance of proactive preparation for life’s challenges.
Harrell asserts that by adopting a ‘pre-active’ approach to life, we’ll be better equipped to navigate the hazards that inevitably arise.
This chapter teaches us how to anticipate and prepare for situations that can trigger negative attitudes, potentially derailing our progress toward our goals and dreams.
Harrell also offers a dose of reality: even with a positive attitude, purpose, and passion, life will still present challenges, disappointments, setbacks, and problems.
We can develop resilience and strategies to overcome obstacles and stay on track by understanding this.
In Chapter 7, ‘Your Attitude Tool Kit,’
Keith Harrell provides a comprehensive toolkit for cultivating self-motivation and achieving success.
Harrell’s Attitude Tool Kit consists of eight essential components:
- Affirmations
- Visualization
- Attitude talk
- Positive greetings
- Enthusiasm
- Spiritual empowerment
- Humour
- Exercise
By utilizing these tools, Harrell asserts that we can equip ourselves with the mindset and skills necessary for personal and professional success.
In Chapter 8, ‘Build Your A-Team,’
Keith Harrell emphasizes the importance of supportive relationships in overcoming life’s challenges.
He reminds us that nobody achieves success alone, and surrounding ourselves with the right people is crucial.
Harrell guides us in assembling our A-Team—individuals who will help us combat negative attitudes and cultivate positive ones.
As Harrell notes, “To build a team, you first have to develop an attitude that will make others want to support you.”
This chapter teaches us how to forge long-term, mutually beneficial relationships through effective networking, shared vision, and aligned values.
Additionally, Harrell provides strategies for defending against toxic individuals who seek to undermine our success,
ensuring we maintain a supportive network that promotes growth and achievement.
In Chapter 9, ‘Develop a Whatever-It-Takes Attitude,’
Keith Harrell tackles one of the biggest obstacles to maintaining a positive attitude: Change.
Whether it’s a new job, a shift in relationships, or a fluctuation in financial status, change can be daunting.
However, Harrell argues that embracing a “Whatever-It-Takes” mindset is key to navigating uncertainty.
This chapter delves into the benefits of adopting this attitude and provides valuable insights into the change process.
Specifically, we’ll explore:
– The four typical ways individuals respond to change
– Ten practical strategies for embracing change and thriving amidst uncertainty
By developing a resilient and adaptable “Whatever-It-Takes” attitude, we can turn change into an opportunity for growth and success.
In Chapter 10, “Make a Mark That Cannot Be Erased,”
Keith Harrell emphasizes that building a healthy attitude requires involvement in something larger than ourselves.
He encourages us to transcend self-focus and make a meaningful impact.
This chapter explores the rewards of sowing positive seeds of hope, encouragement, faith, and love.
We’ll discover how to leave an enduring legacy, making an indelible mark on the lives of our loved ones, friends, and community.
In conclusion, Keith Harrell’s ‘Attitude Is Everything’ indeed invites readers to embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth.
However, the true power lies in our ability to translate the life-changing strategies in this book into tangible actions, yielding profound results.
As Keith Harrell aptly puts it,
“Remember, the real wealth is measured not by what you have, not by where you are, but by the spirit that lives within you.”
I join Keith Harrell in wishing you a remarkable and empowering journey as you delve into the pages of this book with an open mind and a willingness to learn and act.
May the insights gained from ‘Attitude is Everything’ inspire you to unlock your full potential and cultivate a spirit that radiates positivity, resilience, and success.
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Attitude is Everything
“Attitude is Everything”
Hmmm, this book is motivational and it emphasizes the transformative power of positive thinking, providing practical strategies to overcome obstacles, build resilience, and achieve success.
I learnt that we can all change our attitude if we want to. Our attitude
should be an indication of where we desire to go in life and not a reflection of what we’ve been through. If we change our attitude, then we can change our life! And we can’t just sit
around and wait for a positive attitude to come over to us, we have to work it out, if we truly want a positive attitude. 🥰
We have a choice. We can concentrate on problems, or we can focus on
solutions. I believe in taking the positive approach. You will find out that when your attitude improves, so do your circumstances. 🤗
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