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The Importance of Community and Relationships for Longevity:

The Idea of Community or Relationship has been Embedded in the Story of Humanity from the Beginning of Time.

By Pius Daniel

God created us for community, and it’s in relationships that we find strength, comfort, and purpose.

The road ahead is always brighter when walked together.

So, make your move, start building a healthy connection.

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With the advent of technology and the access to connect to one another seamlessly, it has become easy to believe that we have gained true connection.

The focus dwells on how deeply connected we are beyond the screens and media spaces.

Are they the kinds of relationships that nurture our souls and help us grow as individuals?

For both young and old, true connections are what sustain us and contribute to our longevity, and these are grounded in community and faith.

The Bible tells us that we were never meant to walk this journey of life alone;

the idea of community or relationship has been embedded in the story of humanity from the beginning of time.

This explains why God created a second human and gave the gift of multiplication to humanity.

God created us for community, and it’s in relationships that we find strength, comfort, and purpose.

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The Biblical Foundation of Community

In Genesis 2:18, we read, “It is not good for man to be alone.”

This statement isn’t just about marriage; it reflects a broader truth about human nature.

Genesis 2:18 KJV

[18] And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
https://bible.com/bible/1/gen.2.18.KJV 

We are social beings, made in God’s image, who thrive in fellowship with others.

Throughout the scripture, there are countless examples of the power of community—

from the early church in Acts that shared everything they had, to the friendships of David and Jonathan that were built on loyalty and mutual support.

For those entering the later stages of life, community becomes even more vital.

Loneliness and isolation are real challenges that many elderly people face, as they hit their retirement age or experience the loss of loved ones.

God’s design is for us to remain rooted in relationships,

finding support in our families, friends, and faith communities.

These connections go a long way, having tangible effects on health and well-being.

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The Impact of Relationships on Longevity

Loneliness can lead to depression, anxiety, and even physical ailments such as high blood pressure or weakened immune systems.

But when we are surrounded by people who care about us, who check in on us, and who share in our joys and sorrows, we are more resilient, both mentally and physically.

Being blessed with the gift of a healthy community can undeniably increase one’s life span.

Although one’s life longevity isn’t solely dependent on social life,

having a good relationship with people has its way of giving you reasons to live better—unlike being lonely.

For older adults, these connections are vital to their emotional and physical health.

I can remember a house fellowship I attended.

The owner of the house, a retired civil servant in her late 60s, had just lost her husband a few months ago.

She was a woman of deep faith and wisdom.

One fateful day, just after fellowship, she opened up to everyone in the room, urging us to consider engaging the elderly people amongst us.

She said the house fellowship wasn’t her idea but that of her husband, before he passed.

For her, she found it difficult to move on, often finding herself in a lonely state after losing her companion.

Having lost her only child two years ago, her days grew gloomy.

She then thought of fulfilling her late husband’s desire of inviting people over to the house for fellowship,

oblivious of how this act could elevate her from the sad state she was in.

According to her, this has really been a great relief, and the idea of belonging to a community has helped improve her state of mind.

She went on to say that the connections gave her reasons to move on with life and she no longer felt lonely.

Encouraging older folks to embrace companionship and community.

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Building Strong Connections Across Generations

One of the greatest blessings of a life rooted in faith is the opportunity to build relationships across generations.

The Bible encourages us to pass on wisdom from one generation to the next.

Churches and faith communities are ideal places to foster these intergenerational relationships.

Programs that encourage mentoring, shared Bible studies, or even simple social gatherings can create spaces where young and old connect.

These gatherings provide not only spiritual growth but also a sense of belonging and purpose for both groups.

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Practical Steps for Strengthening Community

So, how do we nurture these life-giving connections, especially for those who may feel isolated or disconnected?

Here are a few practical steps:

– Stay Involved in Church Life: Whether you’re young or old, make an effort to remain active in your local church.

Attend Bible studies, volunteer in ministries, and participate in social events.

The church is a family, and like any family, it requires participation to grow stronger.

– Reach Out to Others: Don’t wait for others to come to you.

If you notice someone who seems lonely, reach out to them.

A phone call, a visit, or even a small gesture like bringing them a meal can make a huge difference.

These small acts of kindness are a reflection of God’s love and can be the start of deeper connections.

– Mentorship and Discipleship: If you are an older adult, consider mentoring a younger person in your church.

Share your experiences, listen to their challenges, and offer guidance.

For younger people, seek out those with more life experience, and ask them to walk with you through your journey of faith.

– Create Opportunities for Fellowship: Host a small group in your home or invite a few friends to lunch after church.

These informal gatherings can lead to meaningful conversations and lasting friendships.

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Walking Together in Faith

In the end, nurturing connections isn’t just about living longer; it’s about living well.

It’s about walking together, hand in hand, through the seasons of life,

supporting one another in faith, and drawing closer to God.

As Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 reminds us, “Two are better than one… If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.”

Let’s make it our mission to build and nurture these connections,

knowing that in doing so, we reflect the heart of Christ and live out His commandment to love one another deeply.

The road ahead is always brighter when walked together.

So, make your move, start building a healthy connection.

Also Read: Intimate Relationships – Diademng (thediademng.org)

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